This episode features a heartfelt conversation between Manisha Snoyer and Deb Vilas, a child life specialist, and educator, as they unravel essential aspects of child development, play-based learning, and parenting strategies. Deb Vilas emphasizes the significance of giving children agency, encouraging self-directed learning, and understanding their perspective. Through Deb's innovative approaches in her classes, the conversation illuminates the profound impact of play on children's growth. A deep dive into societal expectations, gender stereotypes, bullying, and the role of empathy enriches the discussion. Manisha's queries on healthy socializing and the utilization of alternative tools for children with learning difficulties blend with Deb's insights into grief counseling, clear communication, and limit-setting in families. This episode resonates with educators, parents, and anyone interested in the nuances of child development.
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Time Codes:
00:00:00 - Manisha Snoyer welcomes guest Deb Vilas to the podcast.
00:01:29 - Deb Vilas introduces the Child Life field, discussing its evolution from play in hospitals to a specialized role. The focus is on child development, family systems, and medical terminology.
00:04:00 - The expansion of child life specialists outside hospitals, encompassing foster care agencies and private practices.
00:05:00 - Manisha shares an example of how a child life specialist helped a teen tap into his intrinsic motivation for learning. Deb elaborates on the importance of child-centered play.
00:09:36 - Deb Vilas explains the concept of retrieval and how stress can impact our ability to access information, casting a fresh perspective on learning challenges.
00:16:42 - A glance at the Finnish education system highlights informal learning until age seven, fostering a love for school and better academic performance.
00:23:40 - Deb emphasizes the importance of play for developing critical thinking skills, socialization, creative thought, and perspective for other people. An eye-opener on the learning process.
00:30:14 - Discussion of secure attachment between parents and children and its contribution to confidence and feelings of safety.
00:34:39 - Vilas delves into bullying and the importance of empathy in classrooms. Her insights on democratic environments inspire reflection.
00:38:22 - Deb introduces scaffolding in learning, promoting playful and engaging learning.
00:41:40 - The importance of parent coaching, particularly for parents with children experiencing ADHD, behavioral issues, or anxiety.
00:46:56 - Deb's insights on clear communication, setting limits, and offering choices to children.
00:48:15 - A touching segment on dealing with grief in families, highlighting Deb's work and expert insights.
00:49:00 - Deb shares her work on loss and grief, offering support to parents facing loss. She talks about children's understanding of death, stressing the importance of patience and time.
00:53:48 - Manisha emphasizes community support for families dealing with grief or divorce and invites listeners to engage, fostering a community of sharing and learning.
This podcast is made possible through a generous grant from the Vela Education Fund
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